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Let's see. The house. Well, we are looking at Wednesday to
finalize everything for the house. We were planning on a big move
for this Saturday, but I'm not sure if that will still stay true or
not since we won't get the house until at least Wednesday (that is
if everything goes through smoothly.) Michael is thinking about
moving it to next weekend instead. Things are just getting to cramp
right now.
Well, me. This is really bad timing. We are just about to get a
new house and my job is in jeopardy. I have no idea when it will be,
but I am guessing that I will be laid off pretty soon. Right now,
the company that I work for is in some trouble getting work and the
market right now is not all that great so trying to find another job
is getting a bit difficult. I just hope that I wont' get laid off
because to lose my income would be a great impact on the family
financially.
Enough about me. Now for Nicholas. He's getting more naughty as
he grows. Like yesterday, I had to run after him to avoid him from
running out into the streets. He was at my parents' house and I just
turned away for a split second and the kid was running towards my
cousin's house and towards the streets. I ran after him and stopped
him. I scolded him for doing that and told him never to do it again.
Of course, he didn't listen. He gave me a cute look again, like
usually, but this time, I didn't buy into it. I hit his little hands
to teach him not to go out there. He tried to hit me back because he
was upset with me not allowing him to go any further. So I grabbed
his hands and hit them again. He started crying and I carried him
back into my parents' house. He was very upset with that because he
wanted to go outside, but I was punishing him for running out in the
first place. Once he calmed down, he wanted a soda cup filled with
lemonade. I gave it to him with the lid on, but he wanted to take
the lid off and start pouring it all over. I stopped him and instead
gave him a little cut with some lemonade in it. He didn't want it
and started getting upset because he couldn't have the soda cup.
He's just too spoiled. (I know it's mainly my fault) If he doesn't
get anything, he will start crying and eventually someone will give
it to him (usually either me or one of my family members). But this
time, I was determined not to give in and I ended up winning the
battle. He was so tired after crying for so long, he fell asleep.
It's really hard to discipline him, especially when he's at my
parents' house because if he cries, someone will pick him up. Karen
did that yesterday after I said that she was not allowed to pick him
up because he needed to learn that he did something wrong. She still
went ahead and picked him up. Well, she ended up been lectured by
me. After that, she immediately let him go and he started coming
towards me again, but I just let him be. He needed to learn that
running out into the streets was not something that he should be
doing at all. My parents' are going to fence up the front of their
house to block him from running out there. Out of all the grandkids
there, he's the only one who runs out towards the street. Maybe
because he's a boy. I really don't know.
Of course, there is always the cute side to this boy. Last night,
he climbed onto the bed and threw all the pillows off the bed. After
that, he took the comforters off the bed and just started jumping up
and down on the bed. He was so happy. Even when he's bad, he's just
so cute. He makes these sad faces that are so cute that you can't be
mad at him for long at all. He has learned how to climb in and out
of his crib. For some reason, he just loves to scare the heck out of
the both of us. I mean, out of all the sides of the crib to climb
up, he will always pick the highest side. Maybe he does it on
purpose to get back at us for punishing him. It's also the side
where the television is so if he ever falls, he would hit the
television and the shelf that the television is sitting on. I mean,
we have lower the front of the crib and there's also a box that he
can use as a stepping stool. But he doesn't ever go in that way. I
guess it's not challenging enough or something. I'm just glad that
he does climb out from the front of the crib. When he first started
doing this, I freaked out every time. I always wanted to just catch
him and put him into his crib instead of allow him to climb in, but
I knew that he needed to learn the hard way. I mean that's how we
learn. That's why failure is the key to success.
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