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It’s a little over 7 weeks now and Mackenzie
has been a wonderful addition to our family. She has learned
the difference between day and night and is starting to sleep longer
hours during the night. Of the three kids, I think she is the
quickest one to adapt to a night time schedule. She will go to
sleep around 9 or 10 PM and will sleep for 4 to 5 hours. Of course,
this is great for me because I can actually sleep for more than 2
hours each time. After that, she gets up to be fed and then will
normally sleep for another 3 hours or so. During the day, she will
take a long nap for about 3 hours and the rest of the time will take
short naps here and there.
Many people are amazed with her alertness at her young age. She looks around a lot and can recognize
voices. She’ll turn towards the voice/noise and stares the person straight
in the eye, especially if it is Mommy that’s talking. She has this
little radar for me whenever I’m anywhere near her. She also has
very strong neck muscles. She can support herself up very well. On
her rocker, we normally have her in a sitting position and
ironically, she gets upset if she’s not in the sitting position. I
really don’t remember Nicholas or Zachary being that strong at the
same age. Michael thinks that she will walk even sooner than
Nicholas did. (Nicholas was walking around 9 ½ months.)
Overall, we believe that Mackenzie is
developing very well. I took her in for a check up about 2 weeks
ago because she had a cold and she was already 10 lbs. 6 oz. That’s
a little over 3 lbs. over her birth weight. We’re guessing she weight about 11 lbs. right now. She has
her two month check up next Thursday so we’ll know more than.
How is Nicholas and Zachary adapting to
Mackenzie? Both of them are doing fine with Mackenzie.
Zachary loves his little sister. Every chance he gets, he
would go up to her and rub his face against hers. There are
times when I have to ask him to stop because she’s sleeping and he
tends to wake
her up when he does that. There are other times when he will
actually sit there and talk to her. Yesterday, both Nicholas and
Zachary were trying to talk to her using the universal baby
language. It was a very cute and adorable sight to see.
Nicholas does not hang out with Mackenzie as
much as Zachary, but is doing his share as a big brother. He helps
with many things like carrying the baby bag when we are out or
throwing away the diaper when she gets changes. The newest trick he's
learned is how to put the pacifier into her mouth iwhen
she’s crying in the car. I remember the first time I asked Nicholas to do so,
he didn’t know that he could let go after she started sucking on
it. He held it in her mouth the whole way home from my parents’
house. That’s about a 25 minute drive.
Zachary will do his share of helping also
especially when Nicholas is in school, but Zachary gives up a lot
more easily than Nicholas.
Other events during the last month? Well,
there was Chinese New Years. Since I did not have to work this year
during the festivities, it was a lot more enjoyable. We really
didn’t do anything different from last year, but because I
had a new born, I didn’t have to do as much work as I normally
would. We had our normally celebration at my mother’s house on the
second day of New Year. Of course, like normally, there were plenty
of food and laughter. For the kids, they got their usually amounts
of red envelops and met many people that they probably will not
remember until next year. This year, Chinese New Years was a bit
more fun for the kids because my brother built an arcade machine at
my parents’ house. Also, many, if not all, of my nieces and nephews
have a Gameboy console so they were able to connect to each other
and play two player games. As you can see from the pictures I took,
there were very into the Gameboy and the arcade machine.
The weekend after Chinese New Year (2/23 -
2/25), the boys
went to South Lake Tahoe. Mackenzie and I stayed home. From what I
heard, the boys had a lot of fun playing in the snow and they loved
the kid games at Heavenly. The trip was planned a few months ago.
We bowl with my sister and a couple of friends on Wednesday nights
and they all decided to take a trip to the snow. Since the boys
have never been to the snow, we thought it would be a good
experience for them. They drove up to the cabin that they rented on
Friday and stayed there until Sunday. As you can tell from the
pictures, the boys had lots of fun playing in the snow, building
snowman, and sliding down the hill. The cabin that they were
staying in also had a hot tub outside and the kids enjoyed that
too.
They did have some problems trying to get back
down to Sactown. That weekend happen to be the weekend where it
rained a lot down here in Sactown so it was snowing up in the high
countries. On the day they went up, the roads were clear so they
had no problem getting to Lake Tahoe. On Saturday, it was nice and
sunny so they enjoyed their day at Heavenly. However on Sunday, the
day that they were suppose to come back down, it was snowing and
windy. I guess it snowed overnight and you can see from some of the
pictures that their cars were all snowed in. The roads were very
bad so they decided not to come back down in the morning. I was
constantly calling them to see what the latest conditions were.
Eventually, they were able to leave that evening and got back into
town around 1 AM on Monday morning. Good thing we don’t do this
often or else I would have a lot of white hair from worrying.
The weekend after the snow trip (3/3/07), we had a Red
Egg and Ginger party for Mackenzie. It’s pretty much a dinner party
to celebrate the one month birthday of a newborn. For dinners like
this, you can either have it at your home or in a restaurant and
since I was not going to be cooking for 50 – 60 people, it took
place at a restaurant. Traditionally, you would serve eggs that
were dyed red and ginger that was marinated in vinegar. Don’t ask
me why eggs and ginger. I only know that ginger is supposed to be
good for women who just had a baby because it helps “heal” your
body. Well, I did serve the red eggs, but not the ginger because my
mother knows that I can’t take ginger so she never prepared that
dish while I was pregnant. You see, the marinated ginger requires
much work that starts probably around the 8th month of a
woman’s pregnancy. After the birth of the baby is when the ginger
is actually cooked with pork and served. It is also tradition that
if someone comes and visits you at your home during the first month
of your child’s birth, you should serve them some of this ginger.
Of course, I use the excuse that I married an American, therefore I
do not need to follow all the rules so if you came to see me during
the first month of Mackenzie’s birth, that is why you were not
served ginger and pork.
How am I doing so far? I’m doing fine. Since
Mackenzie doesn’t sleep through the night, I wake up whenever she
wakes up. You can imagine that with all the interrupted
sleep during the night, I never feel like I get enough sleep so I
don’t normally get up until 9 in the morning. Life at home with
Zachary and Mackenzie has been fun thus far. I have always been the
ambiguous type and thought that I would go crazy if I spent too much
time sitting at home. Thus far, these seven weeks have been
enjoyable and I’ve gotten use to staying at home. I always thought
that I would get bored and not want to stay home anymore, but on the
contrary, there is so much that can be done at home that I run out
of daylight each day. My only problem is that Mackenzie is still
very young therefore I cannot devote an entire day to working around
the house. I spent whatever time I have free working on things
while she’s sleeping or on the swing. Some of the free time, I
spend watching TV and relaxing. And when I do get bored, I go out
to my parents and stay there for a while. So to conclude myself,
life at home isn’t that bad.
Finally, I have great news. My sister-in-law
gave birth to twin boys on Tuesday morning. I don’t have all the
details as to their weight and height, but we do plan on visiting
them this coming weekend so we’ll have more details and plenty of
pictures. Congratulations to Richard and Carla!!!
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